My friend Carrie, also a wheelchair-user, but not from a spinal cord injury (she has cerebral palsy: moderately so and can push herself in a manual chair), is a my only friend in a wheelchair who lives in my area. We met one another at David Bowie’s “Reality” tour in 2005, and she’s a woman with some mighty keen insight. 10 years older than me, she looks about 28 years old.
See, Carrie has this amusing theory that people who use wheelchairs from childhood on up, end up looking younger than their real age most of their lives. We live a “soft life” she theorizes, because well, for many of us we have no other choice. Spending hours in the sun working for example, not many of us could do that even if we wanted. So we end up with the skin of an angel, and love it or hate it – getting carded into our 40’s.
BUT…but….some of us ladies in chairs still worry about aging. Even I know, despite my wheelchair life, that aging is inevitable. So…since I like to be prepared, staving off aging has been a concern of mine since my early twenties. I started my “Be Smart with Your Skin Care” regimen at age 22, with Oil of Olay + sunscreen St. Ives Apricot Scrub being my big two.
I first began using Oil of Olay after using Lubriderm lotion on my face for several year. This is body lotion; an amateur mistake on my part. When I began to notice my pores were bigger than they should be and my skin was looking ashy, I knew I was over-moisturizing and needed to find a lotion made for the face. It felt old making this transition, but it was time, and Oil of Olay was the face lotion I reached for.
My grandma, mom and now myself have all used their products, and I’ve been an avid user of Oil of Olay’s Complete lotion w/ SPF 15 for daily use now for over a decade, and it has served me well. It’s definitely done it’s work these past ten years. And, it’s working. I get SO many comments from people who think I’m younger. It’s really all about moisturizing, staying out of the sun and water, water, water (for consumption that is).
Then I discovered the best face scrub/exfoliator on the market, St. Ives Apricot Face Scrub. As a quad, exfoliating our skin is a must to keep it in tip-top shape, and this stuff is very reasonably priced. It removes all of the old skin cells from your face beautifully, revealing glowy skin you didn’t even know you even had.
What I love about St. Ives too, other than the fact that it’s cheap and it works amazingly well, is that it can be used anywhere on the body. As a quadriplegic prone to skin issues, exfoliating the skin can help immensely long term.
Rub it all over your body in the shower (in circles), clockwise and counterclockwise, and do this a couple of times a week. My skin stays in great shape and a nice bonus, I feel so much prettier whenever I do this. Amazing stuff.
My ultimate goal at some point however is to not care about aging and to embrace the now, but that’s not easy…even from where I sit. I just hope I continue to get carded for at least a few more years. After that, go ahead and bring on the “maams.” I’m ready.